16 March 2010
Superintendent Teresa McNeece
tmcneece@itawamba.k12.ms.us
Principal Trae Wiygul
twiygul@itawamba.k12.ms.us
Re: Cancelation of the Itawamba Agricultural High School prom
Ms. McNeece and Mr. Wiygul:
Although I do not live in Mississippi, and am many years past prom-age, I am writing to express disgust and disappointment over the Itawamba County School District's initial decision to bar student Constance McMillen to attend prom with her girlfriend, then followed by the cancellation of the prom.
This was a truly bigoted and discriminatory action against Constance McMillen, as well as all gay, lesbian, bi, transgender, and questioning teenagers in the entire country. In addition to it being a bigoted and discriminatory decision, it was also a very dangerous and irresponsible decision, as it has basically placed the "blame" for the prom's cancellation on Constance McMillen. It has already been reported that McMillen has been the target of hateful comments, such as "Thanks for ruining my senior year." I can only imagine (in horror) the comments that are not being printed in the newspaper.
High school is a difficult enough time period for any teenager who doesn't follow the prescribed "mainstream" path, no matter if they are geeks (band, science, drama, or otherwise), non-conformists, independent thinkers, or questioning their gender and sexuality. By first baring Constance McMillen and her girlfriend from the prom, and then cancelling the event seemingly out of spite, you have not only made life worse for one girl who was brave enough to speak up, but for the many who are too terrified to do so.
If I were pious, I would pray for Constance's safety until the end of the school year. As an anti-theist, the best I can do is keep her in my good thoughts and spread the word about this situation.
Regards,
A.j. Michel-------------------------
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Please send polite, well-constructed complaint e-mails to Superintendent Teresa McNeece (tmcneece@itawamba.k12.ms.us) and Principal Trae Wiygul (twiygul@itawamba.k12.ms.us).
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Let Constance McMillen take her girlfriend to prom.ACLU Archive on Incident(And a hat tip to Dan Savage for inspiring me to write this letter.)